Monday, January 30, 2012

Nobody Really Cares About You!

(A look at how social media moves the boundaries of personal and professional relationships: Blog 1)

Social media plays an increasingly large part in our lives, that fused with technology has taken away much of the personal, tactile relationship building which enables people to prosper. However, because of this fusion nobody REALLY cares about you! It’s simply about what you bring to the table.

It’s that "what" they care about. That "what" is your knowledge. It is what it is, because technology and media reach has evolved to such a degree that they now rule many of our daily actions. People believe far too much of what they read, and scrap amongst one another to be heard…

... in a sense that’s such a shame. While digital media is good for many reasons, the trade off is considerable. We have eliminated much of the need for personal contact, built on good old fashioned values. To the point where now, who and what makes a difference has shifted the boundaries of corporate and community success. Professional and social networks become all encompassing or marginalized, "expertise" gets freely banded around, in a web of virtual diatribe – there is a huge void between what is believable and what is not.

Put your ego aside for a minute and ask - what do you offer? Do you make a difference? Intellectually, financially, emotionally? This is a relatively new dawn for technology and media, but it has become a breeding ground for skepticism, regurgitation and dilution.

Social media started off hot, and has now reached melting point. As a result, a new breed of worker must manifest. The problem is, because of technological shifts, today's culture and lifestyles are merging and changing completely the concept of relationships. Driven by a heightened sense of impatience and intolerance we get bored quickly, flitting from one thing to another. We don’t see things through and as a result rarely feel completely satisfied.

It’s all about instant gratification; we want and crave it, now, now, now. So we chase time, money, lifestyles, that are evolving and even disappearing before our very eyes. As such the corporation and community must be agile to changing pace or direction. Gaps in knowledge can be bridged, but loosely and without depth, loyalty or genuine buy-in. Knowledge is more transitional, based on diversity of need and troubled economic times. To succeed we must be transparent and collaborative.

Employees too have to evolve quicker than ever. If only because technologies and their gambit of uses increase by the day. There is a huge difference between the psyche of a knowledge worker in 2012 and that of their counterparts 10, 5, even only 2 years ago. Skills are morphed, competitive choice is in abundance and we can very easily get lost in the crowd. So we must adapt and embrace, being patient, focused and driven. That is some balancing act!

We want a work/life balance, we want all the trimmings of fun, empowerment, wealth, but we also want more, more, more! Of everything! It’s time to take a step back and decide if you are effective and add value to the professional and private lives around you. After all, nobody really cares about YOU!

Photo Credit: Dreamstime.com/Katrina Brown

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2 comments:

  1. Very good article and excellent points raised. Would you argue that with increases in tech we're basically turning in to autonomous beings relying upon things we don't really need? Or are we replacing our requirement for human contact with our need for the latest gadgets?

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  2. I actually think the opposite holds true. With technological advancements and increased ease of digital communications, we're becoming more and more connected with people across the world -- even if those connections aren't formed in person. As a result, not only do we become more aware of what's happening all over the world, but we can put a face on these happenings and make them more "real" to us than ever before.

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